(Last Updated On: June 17, 2018)

Solo traveling – why it suits me!

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“You’re so brave to travel alone”, -”It must be daunting to travel by yourself”, -”You must get so lonely solo traveling”, – “Just the thought”, -“of going somewhere by myself puts me off”, -”I could never travel by myself”, -”How do you do it?”, -”It must be so hard!”

These are just some of the things that have been put to me about solo traveling over the years. The thing is, it’s not just me but every solo traveler I know has had the same or similar said to them.

Not another solo traveling post!

Since I’ve dipped my toes into this world of blogging, I’ve read a lot of posts on solo traveling, and I have to say as a solo traveler myself some of them amuse me. I see lots of posts like ‘Why you should only solo travel.’, ‘Solo traveling is the only way to travel.’, ‘Ultimate guide to solo travel’, ‘Why you should only solo travel’, ‘You should try solo travel at least once’…So on and so on…

Before I go any further let me say this – This is not one of them, nobody should tell you how to travel, you should travel how you feel best to. There is no right or wrong way to travel!

At the end of the day and the truth is, solo traveling isn’t for everybody, some prefer to travel in groups, with friends or even with family. And that is just fine.

This post is to give you an idea why solo travel suits me and it may help you in making a decision to see if it’s for you or not. And, that’s the beauty of traveling – you travel the way which suits you best, not how somebody else tells you to travel.

Why solo traveling suits me.

Since I first packed my backpack way back in 2010, I’ve traveled with friends and in groups but for me traveling solo just suits me better. Don’t get me wrong now, It’s not like I don’t like people or that I just love my own company that much. Well, I do amuse myself most of the time but I also have some demons so I can’t be alone for too long or they like to come out.

I prefer solo traveling but I’m rarely alone. I’m a bit weird like that, I like my own company but I don’t, I don’t have to be around people but I do. I’m quite a closed off and private person but I’m not. Only the people that really know me will understand what I mean.

The reason I solo travel is that I can do everything on my own terms, in my own time and how I want to. – The only person I need to compromise with is myself and that’s hard enough at times!

If you’re planning to solo travel and have questions spinning in your head but without the answers, check out this comprehensive solo traveling F.A.Q’s. 

Is solo travel hard?

At times, yes; it can be. Like with all types of traveling there is going to be ups and downs. Traveling is very rarely a 100% smooth ride (It’s half the fun). Traveling, in general, is as hard or easy as you make it out; when problems occur it’s how you tackle them, or how you personally deal with situations.

There are a few things I like to do, which might not be the case for every solo traveler but these help me.

  • In-depth research but keeping my plans loose (There’s a difference in knowing about everything a country has to offer opposed to planning to see and do everything.) If you need some help with how to structure your planning and researching – This aid will walk you through step-by-step.
  • Learn a few basic words in local language (It helps a lot)
  • Find out best transport options beforehand, how to get from A to B easiest.
  • Where are the backpacker areas, where travelers hang out?
  • Where easy to get to hostels are located.

Simple things like this will make it so much easier for your first time traveling alone.


As a solo traveler, of course, my safety is always the priority. I’ve been fortunate enough that since I started to travel in 2010, I’ve only had one problem but I take full responsibility for it. I was very drunk, wasn’t paying attention and got pick-pocketed by a little kid in Bali.

I’ve traveled and lived all over the world, I’ve been in dodgy areas, I’ve stayed in somewhat questionable hostels but that is the only incident I have had. It’s not that I’ve been lucky it’s just that I’ve used a little thing called common sense.

Common sense.

Ok, I know that just made me sound massively arrogant but I’ve seen and met so many travelers who have got themselves into sticky situations or even in trouble and wonder why it’s happened. Well, it’s because they didn’t use any common sense. I come from a background where I’ve had to be pretty street smart but as I’ve traveled I’ve learned to be even more vigilant. I’ve learned to pay attention to my surroundings and be more observant than usual.

It’s things like not acting like a tourist, not flashing money or belongings around. I don’t act like I’m better than anybody in poorer countries. Things like keeping my personal belonging close to me, making sure I know where my bag is on a bus. If there are warning signs not to go into certain areas; I won’t go, or at least not alone.

This all sounds like simple application but you’ll be surprised at people who think to do the opposite and end up in trouble.

But solo travel is Lonely travel, right?

Here’s the thing, ‘solo traveling’ doesn’t mean ‘lonely traveling’…I think it’s a common misconception that if you’re traveling solo, you’re going to be on your own all the way through your trip. This is not the case. Sure, there will be times when you are alone, there will be times you just want to be alone (It’s bliss at times) and sometimes you might just feel lonely even if there are people around.

I’ve had down days where I’ve felt lonely, questioned why I’m doing this, felt sorry for myself. It happens, it’s a part of solo traveling but there is some solace. When I do fall into these kinds of slumps I remind myself I’m surrounded by other travelers, I just need to be sociable.


For me, backpacker hostels are my choice of accommodation as a solo traveler. Other travelers will have their own opinions on hostels, the types of hostels they prefer and or the location of the hostel. Personally, If I’m arriving in a new place and don’t know my surroundings, I tend to go for the central backpacker areas. There’s a couple of reasons for this – 1, they are easy to get to, and 2, hostels are generally sociable places so I can make friends quickly.

Of course the longer I stay in one place and get to know my surroundings, I’m more likely to move away into quieter areas.

Making friends.

I mentioned above that solo traveling doesn’t mean lonely traveling, backpackers are everywhere. You just have to look around, in hostels, on excursions and activities, on bus rides, or even just walking around and this makes making friends fairly simple.

For me making friends while traveling is probably one of the easiest things to do – If I want it to be. I say this because as a solo traveler it’s down to choice; make friends or not. For example – I want to be sociable and want to make friends I put myself out there If I don’t then I step away.

Take for instance my very first trip, I was a solo traveler in a brand new country on the other side of the world. I knew not a soul but having booked myself into a very sociable (party) hostel within minutes I started to make new friends. The friends I made back then became like my traveling family, and all these years later I’m still in contact with a lot of them.

Wherever I’ve traveled, in all the hostels I’ve stayed in over the years, it’s always been fairly simple to make friends.

Mix it up.

Just a word of advice though, hostels are generally sociable places, (I’ve encountered a few that were not) but in my opinion, the easiest way to break the ice with another backpacker is to share a beer…Get drunk or high with them and you’re best friends by day two.

Note from experience and being a long-term backpacker – When trying to make friends with fellow backpackers, try mixing up the conversation. Try something different to the usual, “How long you traveling for?”, “Where you going next?”, “What route you taking?” …Sorry if this sounds harsh or pretentious but the same questions ware thin.

Look at it from their perspective; it might be all new to you and you’re full of excitement. You’ve never asked these questions before, but the person you’re asking has probably heard it hundreds of times before. Cracking open a beer and talking about general things or having a laugh goes a lot further; trust me.

Travel in groups?…Nah not for me!

Like I said at the top of this post, you should travel how best fits you not how It suits others. In saying that for me solo travel suits me best because of the freedom it provides me.

I travel solo but I meet people, I hang around with people, I even do excursion with group but I like moving around on my own at my own pace. And, It’s not like I’ve not tried other ways but they’ve thrown up problems which were avoidable if I was traveling solo. And, it’s not just me, I’ve seen it with other people who travel in groups too. Tthe amount of times I’ve heard “I wish I just traveled by myself it would be so much easier”.

Being part of a group might be perfect for you but for me there’s always been issues, arguments and unwanted stress I just don’t need.

Give me my freedom

My justification for traveling solo (not that I need one) is within groups everybody has an opinion and time to time they will differ. There are compromises to be made, disagreements on what excursion to do, one person wants to go here, another over there. Sometimes when you’re traveling in a group you budget together and that throws up problems, even things like what to eat. Sometimes activities and excursions have to be done as a group even if you don’t want to.

However being a solo traveler I get to pick and chose what I want to do when I want to do it and how. (Being forced to go somewhere at 6 am when hungover because it was a group activity is not acceptable…see picture below)

If I don’t want to do something then I don’t, If I want to move on to a particular destination then I do it as and when I want. It’s that simple solo traveling gives me the freedom I need.

Ups and Downs of solo traveling.

I’m not trying to give you the wrong picture here, I’m not saying solo travel will be perfect and always run smooth. That is not the case, things can go horribly wrong, you can have some real down days, there are days when the shit just hits the fan; these things happen.

Over the years there have been situations, places I’ve been to where I just didn’t get a good vibe, didn’t get along with locals or even with other travelers. I’ve had times where I just wished the day away, done nothing but lay in bed, days I’ve missed things and people from back home.

When those days have happened, they have been frustrating but at the same time I’ve ridden them out because I know they will pass and the ups will return.



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  1. I resonate soooo much with this article ? I get the same questions and we appear to be similar in our of thinking. I do travel with my friends as well, but I would take solo traveling over group traveling all the time. But that will change when I will meet someone who enjoys doing this as much as me, but.. Until then.. Your article brings me joy ?

  2. I can definitely relate! As an Indian girl, constantly being told that I can’t do this or that or traveling alone will literally be the death of me – I showed them hah! Once you get a feel for it, there’s something magical in traveling solo, discovering new places, new people, discovering oneself! I’ve traveled in a group and with family but every now and then – a solo trip is all I need!

  3. I have done both, Travelled Solo an now with my wife. I loved travelling by myself, but I prefer a partner. As long as they have similar interests/energy level it is great.

  4. I love your thoughts on this! Solo traveling is definitely something everyone should try but it’s not worth compromise your safety or comfort. For me, it’s something as a challenge I’m willing to take since I wear the headscarf and wonder how people react to it. 9/10 it’s great and there’s no reason for me to not travel alone because of that!

  5. I totally agree with you! I love solo traveling as there is no need to compromise. I have no problem compromising but sometimes, you just really want to do what you want to do. Like you, I like my own company but still want to be surrounded by people. I get you and don’t find that weird at all. Although, traveling as a female solo traveler is a bit different to a male solo traveler especially when it comes to safety!

    • Exactly, not having to compromise with anybody else when your traveling frees up so much un-needed stress…and yes I totally understand traveling as a solo female is different from a solo male traveling…however I have met so many solo female travellers over the years ??

  6. If I am not tied down to the responsibility of taking care of my family, I would be a solo traveler. In my mind, I dream of places to go, sights to see, and the freedom to unleash my true self. However, that will only be a dream. I am envious of the people who travel extensively, alone or in a group.

    • Just sneak off once in a while ? (joking) …people have different purposes, aims, goals in life and I used to be just a normal person but not content with life …and once I started to travel I’ve found that to really be like my calling in life. ?

  7. I tend to prefer travelling with my partner. We’ve done bigger group trips too, but it’s kind of a hassle to try to please everyone’s different wishes. But with one dedicated person, we can usually agree on our itinerary, and have someone to share and discuss the experience with.

    • Yeah to be fair, when you travel with just one other person, especially if that other person wants to do and see the same as you it can be quite easy that way. I’ve travelled with just another person but we ended up needed time and space away from each other haha. But if you have some1 to share your experiences with u that can be a blessing too ?

  8. I am a massive advocate of travelling solo – I love it, I always make friends when I’m away, and I tend to enjoy being by myself doing what I want to do, rather than trying to suit others x

    • That’s the thing I think people who haven’t travelled before have a perception that if you solo travel you’re going to be on your own. As you know, yeah there will be times when your alone but majority of the time people are all around you; travellers and locals …sometimes it’s hard to be alone!

  9. I usually travel with my partner but last year I took a trip by myself and it was an amazing experience. I was nervous in the beginning, not sure of how it’s going to be but by the end of it, I actually fell in love the idea so much that I’m definitely going to do it again in the future! Having said that, I know a lot people who cannot imagine travelling all alone and that’s perfectly alright too. To each his own!

    • Ahh brilliant, did he vin in his own trip too? …alot of people I know that finally get round to traveling by themselves and never go back to traveling in groups ….traveling is a bug..but solo traveling can be too ….soon you might want to do all your trips solo ?

  10. I agree on a lot of these points. I have travelled in groups (small and large), with one friend, with school kids, with seniors, with my brother, and with girlfriends and definitely enjoy the freedom of being on my own.

    • There is nothing like the freedom it gives you. Waking up on your own terms, do I g things when you feel like doing them …moving on or staying put …its all your decision and there is no need to compromise (only when the bank balance starts to run dry)

  11. Nice post, and very honest too. I think travel is what you make it, and solo travel has its ups and downs. I like to mix it up: sometimes with my partner, other times with family/friends, and then solo. It all makes great memories, even the bad ones!

    • Thank you ? I do try and give an honest opinion in my posts, I realise my way is not always going to be everybody’s way and I really do feel people should travel the way they seem fit for them. Nobody should ever travel a way they feel uncomfortable.

  12. Solo travelling has a lot of advantages, before we both met each other we did a lot of solo travelling, and I feel like everyone should experience that.

  13. Great article. I’m the same as you; I love travelling alone because of the freedom it affords me. I also find that pushing myself outside of my comfort zone is the only way that I grow as a person. Despite having a boyfriend, I spent 10 weeks away from him travelling South America this year and I regret nothing and would do it again. You never learn so much about yourself as when you only have yourself to rely on.

    • Thats cool that you got to experience solo travel, I do think a lot of people get put off solo travel innthe first place because it pushes them outside of our comfort zones but like you said some people need to be pushed outside to grow. It has definetly helped me grow as a human being, there is so much more I’ve learnt about myself and the things I’m capable of doing.

  14. I would quite happily travel by myself, the only thing that puts me off is the thought of eating alone (which sounds so weird to say) I tend to travel with just my daughter, that way we can do what we want and change our plans as much as we want along the way.

  15. I think that it is a lot of fun to travel solo, especially since no one is telling you what you can and can’t do. For some it might be lonely but I see it as an adventure!

  16. There is no doubt that the number of people traveling solo is increasing year on year. Provided you feel confident enough and build up your knowledge and experience, it can be enjoyable, liberating and fulfilling. The only person you need to please and worry about is yourself and as long as you exercise sufficient caution, you can have a great time.

  17. I have gone through a few of your posts and I find that your blog is interesting and well written. Just have to leave a comment to let you know. Have a wonderful new week!! Cheers!

  18. I’m on board with this piece as it is a good read. I have only been on the road for 1 year and 1 month but it is exactly what l was talking to about to a friend yesterday. I may not know you personally but l know what you mean by having people around but then not having them.

  19. Fantastic post! I agree with everything you have written. In all honesty, it felt like I was reading a bit about myself here. I love travelling solo for all of the same reasons. It’s great being able to do what you want when you want.

    • Thank you very much 😀 I’m glad you liked the post, and yes to do what you want when you want especially when traveling is the ultimate freedom, on my schedule and nobody else’s haha

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