Backpacker hostel life: Your 1st time!
Hostel life is part 1 of Forever Roaming the World’s traveling realisms series
ARE YOU ABOUT TO STAY IN A BACKPACKER HOSTEL FOR THE FIRST TIME?
If so, are you prepared for what your first hostel experience could be like?
I’m asking that because a lot of first time backpackers don’t have a clue what backpacker hostel life is realy like. Yeah, I’m sure you’ve got clued up by reading about backpacker hostels, watched a few vlogs, some hostel videos, read some reviews but are you clued up on what really happens in them?
This isn’t me trying to be fecetious in any way. But having stayed in backpacker hostels since 2010, I’ve met countless people who though they knew what their first hostel experience would be like, only to realise they walked in blind.
That’s because anybody staying in backpacker hostels for the first time usually have things like “Will my hostel be like?, “Will it be clean?”, How will I make friends?”, “What will the dorms be like?” running through their heads. These questions get answered in blogs, vlogs and reviews. But, how many of them show you what your first hostel experience can really be like? What happens from the second you walk through the doors?
Keep reading to find out. I’ll walk you through how those first few moments can go, cover different areas of hostels, and we will step behind the veil. I’ll give you an insight into how your first hostel experience might shape the type of backpacker you turn into.
BACKPACKER HOSTELS ARE MORE THAN JUST A PLACE TO SLEEP
One of the first thing backpckers, especially first time backpackers realise about backpacker hostels is they can be more than just a place to sleep. Beforehand most of us think backpacker hostels are just a place to drop your bags while you explore the area, then return to sleep. But Believe it or not, backpacker hostels can play an intergral part of your journey. Not just your first one but through your backpacking life. Backpacker hostels have the power to make of break your whole trip.
I know that sounds a bit far fetched but, ask anybody that’s stayed in backpacker hostels and they’ll say the same and I’ll show you what I mean.
Why are backpacker hostels more than just a place to sleep? Because they’re not hotels, in most cases a hostel is a social place to meet other backpackers, and make friends, they’re communcal places, they can offer comfort, be a hub, and even a sense of home. The longer you’re away from home, the more hostel life plays a prominant part of your backpacking journey.
THAT FIRST HOSTEL EXPERIENCE CAN BE EASY FOR SOME BUT HARD FOR OTHERS
It would be easy for me to say everybodies first hostel experience will be easy and hostel life is not daunting or scary. I can tell you everybody wants to be your friend, that everything will be easy, or that every hostel you walk into will be clean and have no problems. But, that would be bullshit. Hostel life isn’t always a walk in the park.
For some of you, that first hostel experience will be easy, you’ll stay in a awsome place, meet an awsome crowd, make friends straight away, feel at home. However for others of you, it might be daunting, you might be socially awkward, you might just not want to meet people, there may be some fear. But it doesn’t matter what type of person you are. those first few moments are the same for all of us.
YOUR FIRST EXPERIENCE CAN BE LIKE…
Have you ever had to switch schools, or remember that first day at a new high school or even walking into your uni halls for the first time? Remember how you felt? Well that’s the best way to describe what those first few moments of hostel life can be like.
You might be excited and full of beans and confident, you might have butterflies, might be nervous, or it might even be a little overwhelming at first. There could be some initial uncertainty, feel a little out-of-place and even awkward but don’t worry it’s completely normal to feel like this.
Walking through the doors for the first time
Your brain will be hypermode, trying to take snapshots of everything around your new surroundings as you walk through the door. You’ll try and find the reception desk, your heart thumping, as your eyes take in the surroundings and strangers walking past you.
The receptionist in most cases will try and make you feel at ease, talk up the hostel, give you information on events, pub crawls, things to see and do in the area, but nothing sinks in. You’re trying to gage if the hostel is small or big, is it clean, anything appealing about it. You’ll find yourself watching other backpackers around you, what are they like? Will they be friendly? How are they interacting with each other? What’s the atmosphere like? Is there a buzz, are people getting drunk?
All of this will spin through your head like a hurricane in the first few minutes, taking in nothing. Don’t worry it happens to most of us with our first hostel experience.
What you won’t realise is though, the other backpackers, the receptionist and staff will be trying to gage an idea of you too. What kind of person are you? Will you be friendly? Will you fit into the dynamics of the hostel? Are you trustworthy? Do you smell, will you be a good or annoying roommate? These things will run through their heads. Like I said, first day at school vibes.
YOUR FIRST HOSTEL EXPERIENCE: THE TOUR
In most backpacker hostels, once you’ve checked in a quick tour will follow. If they have them, you’ll get shown or pointed out the common areas, storage rooms, TV room, kitchen, lounges, bathrooms, gardens, courtyards, terraces with your dorm room the final destination.
Hostel life begins in the dorm rooms
It’s fair to say, if you’ve never stayed in a dorm, or had to share a room before they can take some getting used to. In most cases, the dorm dependant of what size you’ve chose will consist of bunk beds (some are comfier than others), lockers, possibly en-suit bathrooms, a window or even a balcony and other backpackers.
99% of the time the first thing you’ll do scan the room, how big is it? Do the bunks look comfy? Does it smell? ( yup some dorms do smell) Are there others in the room? You’ll find your bunk and try to settle. With it being your first hostel experience, garanteed, you’ll lock up everything in your locker.
One thing to realise though, in a backpacker hostel, you’re paying for the bed not the actual room. So keep your personal belongings in and around your bed and lockers. Don’t just dump your bags in the middle of the room, that’s a sure fire way to piss people off instantly.
Most beds nowdays come with personal power points to charge your appiances, however if there are only main ones dotted around the room, you’ll have to share with eveybody else. If they are beind used, wait your turn, you don’t have the right to pull anybodies plug out to charge your own.
Hostel snobbery too, is frowned upon and although most hostels have written rules, there are some unwritten rules too; hostel etiquette.
NOTE: If you are leaving in the middle of the night to head to your next destination or to go home, make sure you pack your bags during the day not while others are sleeping!
Once you’ve settled, or tried to, you’re going to notice others backpackers in the dorm. Hostels are mainly very sociable places and easy to make friends. In your dorm room you may find some quite friendly and say hi, and try to strike up a conversation with you, but you might find some that don’t.
Don’t take it personally, you don’t know their situation, they might be having a bad day, something might be going on or they might just not be very talkative. It happens, not everybody is going to want to be your friend.
On the other hand, from your perspective, be respectable of others, do say hi, smile, try and talk to people and don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation. You’ll be surprised at the lifelong friends you can make in a dorm.
COMMUNAL AND SHARED AREAS
Depending on what type of hostel or dorm room you’ve chosen, you will iether have an en-suite bathroom, sharing with just your roommates, or you’ll have general shared bathrooms.
I’m pretty certain you’ll have all kids of rotten things going through your head about the bathroom but let me ease your mind. In general they are cleaned on a regular basis, of course there will be the odd cases where they’ll make your stomoch churn. Most hostels bathrooms come equipped with sinks, toilets and seperate stalls for showers too. Again the showers are generally fine, some will be amazing, a few dog-shite but in general ok.
Remember not to leave your things behind, while hostels are generally safe places, toiletries are some of the biggest things to go missing. And the funny thing is, you can leave your toiletries lying around in the dorm and nobody will touch them, but leave them in the bathroom and they’re fair game.
The crime scene!
You might find your hostel comes with a shared kichen. having a kichen in a hostel can be great but also horryfying. Normally in hostel kichens, utensils, pots and pans are provided for you. The magority of the time there is a free food shelf or basket with condamants, spices, oil, or dry food like rice and pasta, from backpackers who have left. Some kichens are better equipped than others.
While having a hostel kichen can be great, to buy your own food, cook and help keep your budget down, there is a downside too. The kichen is where most arguments and theft happens.
The arguments happen because it can get frustrating when a load of people want to cook at the same time, or things are left in a mess and people don’t wash what they used. You’ll find most hostels with signs plastered all over the kichen to clean up after yourself. And the major thing to start an argument is backpackers who help themselves to things that isn’t theirs. While stealing shower gels and shampoo is fair game, that same sentiment doesnt work in the kichen.
If you choose to buy your own food, label your items clearly (there’s normally instructions on how to) and put your things in your allocated place. Also be mindful it’s a hostel kichen, clean up after yourself and don’t fucking steal other peoples items. If you want to borrow something just ask.
There is likely to be a lounge space or common area of some sort in your hostel for people to hang out and relax. These are great places to meet and make friends with people outside of your dorm or just do unwind.
You might find a TV room, with movies, netflix, a reading room, games consoles, even gaming rooms, pool tables or arcade machines. All these things are there to help you feel at home, give you some home comforts. There are some hostels that go beyong to make your stay pleasant.
Don’t be surprised to see backpackers lounging around, playing cards, board games, on their phones, or seemingly doing nothing. You might be new, this might be your first hostel experience but they may be longtermers or just don’t want to do anything.
And, depending on the type of hostel your staying in, you might find some or a lot of backpackers drinking, getting drunk no matter what time of day or night. These things happen in hostelss.
One of the biggest draws and you’ll find this with your first hostel experience is the social aspect. There are ample oppertunities to hang out with people and to make freinds, from your roommates, people you meet in and around the hostel or by organised events. It’s common to find events like, organised walking tours, trips, nights out, parties, pub crawls, BBQ nights, pizza and movie nights, dinner nights, and so much more.
Smile and say hi
Backpackers come in all shapes, sizes and personalities. It doesn’t matter if you’re the most confident or most trepid person. If you want to make friends in a hostel it can be as easy or hard as you want it to be. I understand for some people walking into a new enviroment can feel quite daunting but even if you’re shy, trepid, or even scared a simple smile and just saying hi can go such a long way.
Like I mentioned before, not everybody is just going to walk up to you and start a conversation with you. Sometimes, it’s on you to make the first move and just saying hi with a smile is all it takes. One thing I’ve learnt over the years, the easiest thing to do a part from just saying hi, is to simple share a beer with others. You’ll be surprised at the amount of freindships born out of sharing a beer. Before you know it, you’ll be in a full swing conversation making future travel plans with each other and feel like you’ve known each other your whole life.
Stay away from the backpacker talk
Something I was taught during my first hostel experience and It’s kept me in good sted to this day, stay away from the backpacker talk; we hate it.
What’s the backpacker talk? It’s recycled questions many backpackers ask when they first meet another backpacker. It usually goes like this: Is this your trip? How long are you backpacking for? Where have you been? Where you heading next? What route you following? How long you been here for? Blah, blah, blah…
Now I don’t mean to sound like a duechbag backpacker, sure we all want to know about other peoples trip but drip feed those questions into a natural conversation. For you being on your first trip and first hostel experience this is all new to you. It’s the first time you’re asking these questions but to the other person they may have heard them a million times.
The longer you travel for you will know why backpackers hate that line of questioning. It’s because some just relly on it, they can’t deviate away and once the questions have been asked the conversation dies. And just those questions are boring once you’ve traveled for a while. So ask the questions but weave and drip feed them into a natural conversation.
ALL KINDS OF THINGS CAN HAPPEN IN A HOSTEL
You may get exposed to things during your first hostel experience, and it can effect your experience of hostel life but you should keep an open mind. Things happen in hostels, well anything and everything can happen, things you’re not used to seeing or experiencing. There might be stuff that shock you, things you don’t find acceptable but remember you chose to stay there. Now It’s important to know, you are under no obligation to partake in anything you don’t want to, just turn a blind eye to it.
You will come across people getting drunk at all hours of the day, you will see people who seemingly don’t do anything, you will see people take drugs, openly in some cases. And you can be on iether side of this but you will come across people having sex, in dorms, in bathrooms, even in public areas. It happens, if you agree with it or not, so keep an open mind for you first hostel experience.
HOSTEL LIFE TRAVELING REALISM
Do be careful though, the hostel life can be quite intense sometimes and you might find yourself sinking deep into the hostel backpacker trap. You know you’ve fallen in when you forget you’re even there to travel.
Hostel life can be fun and you can end up having a better time in the hostel than the actual destination but there will be times it’s hard. There will be times when you book a hostel that’s shit, dirty, smells, has no atmosphere or have bunks that could snap at any slight move. There are places that are falsly advertised, but overall and in generall backpacker hostels can be the cornerstone of your backpacking life. I hope your first hostel experience turns out a great as mine did.
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